Steller Questions

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We believe families connect through rich conversation – but we also know it can be difficult to get rich conversation started. To help, here’s a short list of questions you can ask your City Group, friends, or family.

  • Describe what it is like to be you in five adjectives.
  • What is the current condition of your soul?
  • What was your highlight and lowlight from this last year?
  • What attribute of God is most real to you right now?
  • When have you been most satisfied?
  • What is the best compliment you’ve ever received?
  • What lies do you most often tell yourself? How do you combat them?
  • How do you see Jesus at work around you?
  • When you are older, what do you think your grandkids will ask you to tell stories about? 
  • Where would you spend a day of solitude? Is there a tangible place you feel closest to God?
  • What song brings up a specific memory every time you hear it? What memory?
  • What is a hard experience you went through as a young person that significantly influenced who you are today?
  • What dream is in your heart?
  • What stresses you out?
  • What three people have shaped your life the most, and how?
  • What five people do you love the most (Jesus, spouse, kids assumed)
  • What is your biggest job challenge?
  • What is your fondest childhood memory?
  • What is the saddest moment in your life?
  • When was the first time you remember being afraid?
  • In what ways are you most like your mom/dad (positively and negatively)?
  • Who is the happiest person you know? Why do you think they are so happy?
  • What makes you come alive? Do you do enough of it?
  • What are your two favorite things about yourself?
  • If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  • What is Jesus teaching you right now?
  • On a scale of 1-10, how at peace are you? Why?
  • What do you feel most proud of?
  • In what ways do you hold yourself back?
  • What makes you cry?
  • What do you know now that you wish you knew when you were 20 years old?
  • If you could make yourself believe one truth, what would it be?
  • What relationships have ended, but you can’t let go?
  • What scares you about your future?
  • How would you hate to be described?
  • What would be the most insulting thing someone could say to you?
  • What have you given up, but used to love?
  • Would you fall head over heels in love with you? Why or why not?
  • What risk do you need to take?
  • Is there anyone you have a hard time forgiving? If so, why?
  • What do you use to numb, distract, or avoid pain or uncomfortable issues?
  • Using only one word per person, what was your first impression of each person present with you now?
  • What fear(s) are you trying to overcome?
  • How have you been humbled? Describe the details.
  • Have you ever violated a confidence? Describe what happened.
  • What silly thing have you done in the name of love?
  • What’s weighing heavy on your heart these days?
  • What’s your attitude towards people who believe differently than you?

Have any great questions you’d like to add? Email us and we’ll add them to the list!